Who wants to join me in doing random acts of kindness this September?
I am feeling anxious about all the things happening in our world right now. The pandemic is making a comeback. Hurricane Ida slammed the South and what’s happened in Afghanistan is heartbreaking.
Do you agree we could all use a little bit of kindness in our lives? Tomorrow starts a new month, so it’s a perfect time to get started.
For those of you that read my blog, you know I am a huge proponent of kindness. We are all human and have our good days and bad days. That is just a part of life. If you are lucky, you might be kind to someone who could really benefit from your actions that day.
Sometimes, your act of kindness might not even be known. Last month, I saw a man take bottles out of a neighbor’s recycling bin. As he pulled away, two bottles fell out of the bag in the back of his truck and crashed to pieces in the street. I knew this could cause a flat tire, so I went outside and cleaned up all the glass. It felt good; it seemed the right thing to do.
Have you ever been the recipient of a random act of kindness? How did it make you feel? Wouldn’t it be nice to make thirty people feel that way too? Here are some suggestions for you.
This list is not in any particular order, and it is strictly just suggestions. If something else comes to mind, please feel free to do that instead. There is no right or wrong here.
Some of these gestures are so simple, but they can have a great impact.
When Mike and I were living in Chicago, our New Year Resolution one year was to thank every person in uniform for their service when we saw them. (This was years before 9/11.) The responses we received were amazing.
One evening, I was in a Chinese Restaurant waiting on my take-out when a Chicago Police Officer walked in to do the same. I intercepted him as he walked up to the counter with my hand out and said, “thank you very much for your service.” He peppered me with questions, “was my husband ‘on the job?’ ‘was your father a cop?’ He even asked me if I was looking for advice on a ticket or something.
He told me he had 17 years on the job, and no one-not even a family member had ever genuinely thanked him for being a police officer. I had made his day!
My career involved a lot of traveling, and I was in airports almost one time per week. One time, I was in Dallas using a restroom and wound up with a big water stain on my suit. I was rushing, so I didn’t notice water all around the sink that I leaned into. I was so annoyed!
I vowed from that day forward that I would always wipe down the sink when in a public bathroom to prevent this from happening to someone else. It’s fascinating to witness what happens when you do this. It has a snowball effect! Typically, the people on your left and right see you wiping down the sink, and they feel compelled to do it too.
Have I inspired you to start doing random acts of kindness? I have truly found joy in doing them. I sincerely hope you do too. Please leave me a comment and let me know if you plan on joining me in September. Better yet, let me know how your first random act of kindness goes. I’m betting you’ll be glad you did it.
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Anna | 31st Aug 21
Donate blood!! All good ideas
Loretta | 31st Aug 21
Ooh, that’s a great one Anna. Thanks for sharing.
Janet | 31st Aug 21
I will also do this in September!! I’ll let you know how we it goes tomorrow. Thank you for inspiring others!!!
Loretta | 31st Aug 21
Great, I am glad you were inspired to join me. Can’t wait to hear how it goes!
Mike | 1st Sep 21
I was talking to someone of the phone and she told me her son is in the Air Force and is being deployed to Guam. I replied to her, “Tell your son for me, Thank you for your service and stay safe.” She replied to me that is so nice. I will continue to say thank you to all 1st responders because they keep us safe and healthy.
Loretta | 7th Sep 21
Yes, keep thanking them!
Patti | 3rd Sep 21
Good topic! I would like to share 2 acts of kindness bestowed onto me! I don’t think I will forget because so unexpected and thoughtful. Umbrella related…as I was walking along Bell Blvd dodging the pouring rain, a young guy sneaks up to me & without saying a word places his umbrella over both our heads. Together we strolled closer to my home in silence but, a big smile was indeed exchanged !
After a 15 hr work day I was finally at Penn Station to head to the comforts of my home I got a slice of pizza, cut in half the way I like it. I was utterly enjoying every bite when the other half fell to the ground I just stared at the fallen piece as if in utter despair. Then a young lady hands me a slice a pizza that she bought for me after witnessing my “ordeal”. We chatted briefly. She thanked me for my services as a nurse and I thanked her for her act of kindness! Then off we went to our designated trains.
Lulu, I love the whole thing about this topic for your post. I aim to do better!
Loretta | 7th Sep 21
These were awesome. Thank you so much for sharing this! it is so great to be on the receiving end of kindness, isn’t it? You deserved it and so much more! Thank you very much for your incredible dedication as a PA and all the years you spent nursing. Your kindness has impacted patients and saved lives countless times. Proud to call you a friend.