Staying Motivated is Hard

I am struggling to stay motivated these days. Are you? Maybe it is the summer heat that’s finally arrived, but I am having a hard time doing things that used to be routine for me.

I probably should not admit this but, my house isn’t up to my usual clean standards. I would like to believe that’s because doing important things has taken precedence over mundane tasks. The problem is, I don’t have a list of notable accomplishments to show you. So, there goes that theory!

This pandemic has made me depressed, almost sluggish. I recently realized that I am watching more television than reading books. I love to read books! My husband and I have uncovered the benefits of Netflix, and we have been binge-watching shows. Totally unlike me.

Couch Potatos are real!

I feel like I am turning into a loner. I used to love going out with friends or hosting people at our house. Long Island is in Phase II now, so you’d think I would already have a party planned. But no, I am content to float in my pool with my hubby or plant my butt on the couch and watch Netflix all night. I am starting to worry about this.

I do not like what I am becoming ( or not becoming). I need to “get the pep back in my step” to quote an old saying. I want to get back to cooking every day and doing projects around the house.

I painted our front door about a month ago, and it still needs a third coat on the inside, but I keep putting it off. Not completing a project was equivalent to a Cardinal Sin for me six months ago. I look at that door every day and think, “Meh, I can finish that some other day.” Why?

It’s as if someone has zapped me of my energy and my motivation. I need to figure out a way to turn myself around. Does this sound familiar? Is anyone else struggling like this?

I am a work in progress.

I am trying to take some action and am happy to report that I finished a book over the weekend–“The Great Alone,” by Kristen Hannah. The main story takes place in Alaska, and it was interesting to learn a little bit about the state. It was kind of an intense topic, but it held my attention, and I enjoyed it.

It’s the first thing I can write on my Accomplishment List, lol! I thought if I wrote down some goals here, it would force me to be accountable. Hopefully, it will spur others on to do the same.

  • Clean one room in the house per day
  • Meal Plan and Grocery Shop for July
  • Write two blog posts per week
  • Host friends for dinner (since my house will be clean)
  • And, of course, finish painting the front door!

I’m starting small; I hope to have a bigger goal list when July arrives. Have you been sticking to your usual chores during this “time out?” What are you doing differently? How are you staying motivated? Please share in the comment section below. There are a lot of us that can benefit from your tips!

Happy Monday everyone. New week, new opportunity to snap out of your funk. I feel better just knowing that I have a plan.

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4 COMMENTS

  1. Mike | 23rd Jun 20

    I can totally relate to your feelings you are having. I started earlier this by better care of myself. I started
    eating healthy and started to doing some exercising however, the last few weeks it has stopped. I need to start all over again.

    • Loretta | 24th Jun 20

      Thanks for the comment Mike. Yes, I think we have all started and stopped our eating healthy and exercising efforts during this pandemic. It has lasted so much longer than I believe any of us thought it would. I am going to take Mary’s advice (comment above yours) and go a little easier on myself. I think you should too!

  2. Mary | 23rd Jun 20

    It’s like we’ve entered a tunnel. We know we are there, and we’re ok, although it is dark. We don’t know how long it is, so we can’t predict when we will get out. We don’t know what’s on the other side. We think it will be a good place but we’re not positive. We are anxious, maybe not on the outside, but inside. Doing mundane daily tasks is
    difficult because we’re “unsettled”. We’re used to being able to see the future- upcoming holidays, celebrations,
    and vacations. Now we don’t know what time will bring. So, take a breath. Take another. Let the 3rd coat of paint and the exercising go and don’t beat yourself up for it. This too shall pass- eventually. We will exit the tunnel hugging our family tighter and getting used to a new normal. It will happen. Your paintbrush will be waiting.

    • Loretta | 24th Jun 20

      Such great advice Mary, thank you. xo

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